Woman accidentally reads husband's group chat and discovers he doesn't love her

A woman was left heartbroken after she unintentionally stumbled upon her husband's group chat, which revealed that and had plans to leave her.

The British mum, who was organising a surprise birthday bash for her spouse, for his friends' contact details. However, what she found instead was a shocking revelation - her husband was only staying with her out of fear that she would

"I don't think there's any coming back from this," the devastated woman confessed.

She took to Mumsnet, a popular UK community forum, to share her distressing experience, explaining that she came across some "awful" messages her husband had written about her.

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"What I read was along the lines of 'I'm stuck in a miserable marriage, but sheand I wouldn't have anywhere to live or have anyone over, she can keep my son, I just want to keep my money,'" she penned in her post, reports .

To add insult to injury, she revealed that her husband's friends were supportive of his sentiments, describing his predicament as a "complicit in their replies, 'describing it as a lose-lose situation.'"

She also discovered numerous messages discussing 'attractive mum friends', commenting on other women's appearances, fantasising about ex-girlfriends, and expressing regret about ending up with her.

She even uncovered a photo her husband had taken of a woman he spotted in public, whom he described as "so hot."

"It's all really demeaning and disrespectful to me," she lamented in her post.

The woman recounted that after stumbling upon a series of messages, she couldn't resist delving further, leading to even more appalling findings.

"I found messages to friends where DH has lied about me, made up things I've supposedly said, to make me look bad," she penned. "I've been a SAHM (stay-at-home mum) for five years and he complains about me not contributing financially to his friends, implies I'm lazy, useless and never do anything."

"There's a level of contempt towards me."

She expressed her dismay, saying, "It's clear he doesn't see us as equal partners, doesn't value my contribution at home.

"It's also frustrating because a lot of what he's said isn't true. He's controlling a narrative about me which isn't true."

Furthermore, she disclosed that since discovering the messages, she spent three weeks "sat on it" while devising "a plan to leave" her spouse.

"I don't think there's any coming back from this," she confessed. "I haven't confronted him because I know I shouldn't have looked at his phone."

Commenters showed empathy for her plight and concurred that the marriage seems beyond repair. They also advised her to sort out her financial and legal matters as she prepares for a potential divorce.

"How utterly heartbreaking. What a terrible thing to read," one person commented. "As you say, everything now is about leaving this piece of work. Seek legal advice and detach emotionally from this creep. Ducks in a row. YOU DESERVE BETTER!".

Another advised: "You don't deserve his treatment of you - he is in the wrong here. Now, make copies of the messages, and all financial documents, speak to a lawyer and start saving money."

One particularly bold suggestion came from a commenter who plotted an unforgettable way to expose her husband's transgressions.

"I would arrange the party and have a slideshow showing all the quotes from his messages on a big screen in front of his friends and their wives. Would be amazing," they recommended.

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