We have all seen popular cult classics like Mean Girls, Clueless, Freaky Friday etc. All of which show young teens, how mean and vicious they can get at times. While it may seem like normal behaviour, it doesn’t change the fact that their behaviour is off-putting and cause a lot of trouble at times. They do not do well with authority figures telling them what to do and will talk back and be rude to them without thinking of the consequences. As parents, we must make sure that they grow out of this habit and if you do not do that yourself, they will continue behaving the same way. Here are some ways that will help you end the mean streak in your children.
Practice open communicationWhile their personality and conversations may be difficult, your job as a parent is to help them be better. Create a safe space for open and honest communication. Encourage your teen to express their feelings and concerns without fear of judgment. Teach them empathy and understandingTry to understand the underlying reasons for your teen's behaviour. They are often taking their anger out on the wrong people and do not understand the right way to do things at times. Empathy can help bridge the gap and foster a more positive relationship. Set clear boundaries with themEstablish clear expectations and consequences for unacceptable behaviour. You must tell them, that as much as you love them, their behaviour is not acceptable, and you will not tolerate it. This helps your teen understand what is and isn't acceptable. Try positive reinforcementIt isn’t always their fault, and they aren’t always trying to get in trouble. When you see them doing things the right way, tell them you are proud of them and you’re happy. Reward positive behaviour to reinforce desired actions. This can help shift your teen's focus towards more constructive behaviours. Seek professional helpMany times their mean streak is them seeking help. They do not know healthy ways to communicate which often leads them to be rude and dismissive of other people. If your teen's mean streak is persistent or severe, consider seeking professional help from a therapist or counsellor. Address any underlying issuesWhile they are busy being teens, they are also busy with studies and their social life. And many times one of these two or something else is causing them trouble. Look for any underlying issues that might be contributing to your teen's behaviour, such as stress, anxiety, or depression. Model positive behaviour for themYour own behaviour has a significant impact on your teen. They observe how you are behaving around them and other people, this will help them understand how to behave around others better! Demonstrate kindness, empathy, and respect in your own interactions.You may also like
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